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OK, here is an imaginary scenario:

You have a girl. Your girlfriend, wife, whoever you think as your soulmate.

She is beautiful, nice, sweet and friendly with everyone. Harmonious- thats the way she is with everyone. Her true identity, her nature.

Now she is your girl and people like your girl. All sorts of people- good, bad and evil. All of them admire her for right reasons and for wrong reasons. Ofcourse there are bad apples too who admire her because they want her, emotionally or sensually-meaning sexually. Those who are hell bent at chasing her.

You know she is your girl and some freaks are crazily after her. Your girl tells you that she doesn't even know them. She swears that she doesn't know them. You trust her. But these crazy punks would always hunt her wherever she goes. They speak out as if she is their girl.

Now you just don't feel good about it. You tell them diplomatically, sarcastically, indirectly that she is yours. You don't want to be direct coz she doesn't appreciate it, for she is an amicable person, wants to be good with everyone. But the guys keep hunting your girl, trying to lure her by hook or crook . Your adrenaline rushes, and you feel like smacking them to pieces. But you can't be that low. You wish that they knew she is with you. But that never happens, they show no signs of backing off.

What do you do? Please share.

Looks like you are scared. If you really love her then she wont go anywhere. Let the men run after her, feel proud about being with a girl who is so admired by others but thr truth is she is yours. Show her how important she is to you and appreciate her for being with you. Relax. :)

haha common bro feel proud. Its always a risk to be with beautiful girls with good personaliity. We need to work hard to keep them with us. But if you think she is worth, do everything and she will be yours. Women love attention no matter from whom they get, thats their nature. Just show her you trust her and that you really love being with her. If she is the way you described I dont see any problem.

I feel you. I used to have the same problem before and because of such things me and girlfriend used to argue a lot and in the end I lost the most precious person in my life. Dont do the mistake I did. Like Jay mentioned feel proud of it. Beautiful girls will be always admired by guys no matter if they are single or married. And if the girl is friendly and nice she will have more admirers. You need to learn to deal with it and have turst in your self. If you show you got a problem with it women think you are weak and they will slowly try to fade away from you. Women like emotionally strong men. So show her that it doesnt bother you because its you who have her and not others. I learned my lesson late hope you wont do the same mistake.

Good Luck .

I think all men go through this problem. So no need to worry. Having a perfect girl by your side is a challenge. Women are not stable when it comes to emotional feelings they go where they see love and passion. If you will be able to show her how much you want her then she will be yours. Good luck to you both.

No, seriously, I don't think it's such a big deal. The times such things have happened to me I just responded the way I would want to be responded to had the situation been reversed. Just be honest and polite. Gain respect for yourself. People ARE attracted to confidence especially our ladies. :) Trust is everything in love. Show her how important she is for you. Women do enjoy attention from other men some are honest enough to confess it some pretend not to. You need to decide what kind of women you want. I would go for someone who is honest even though I might not like to hear it. I dont see any problem here. Have some confidence and know she is yours and enjoy the show. :)

Saroj bro hit the nail. Good luck from my side to. Dont forget to invite us in your marriage. :)

No need to do anything. Believe in yourself and keep loving each other. Love is a wonderful feeling. Wish i had someone whom I could give my love. Anyone here? haha

Mitra barga haru, this is ''OK, here is an imaginary scenario'' situation. Ka aba maile mero kura gareko ho ta ni? J hoss all of you think almost the same way as I do. Aru ko kura pani sunna paye hunthyo kyare. Jinjin dai kata janu bhayo?

Jinjin dai bhauju khojna gayo haha.